Bible Study - Suffering June 10, 2008

The Book of Job
Session V
June 10, 2008

Review

1. List all the ways that Job has suffered (see Chapter 1 and 2:7).










Opening Prayer

Collect from the Third Sunday in Lent

Almighty God, you know that we have no power in ourselves
to help ourselves: Keep us both outwardly in our bodies and
inwardly in our souls, that we may be defended from all
adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil
thoughts which may assault and hurt the soul; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Opening Scripture
Job’s Three Friends
11 Now when Job’s three friends heard of all these troubles that had come upon him, each of them set out from his home—Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite. They met together to go and console and comfort him. 12When they saw him from a distance, they did not recognize him, and they raised their voices and wept aloud; they tore their robes and threw dust in the air upon their heads. 13They sat with him on the ground for seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great.

Discussion Questions:

1. How did Job’s friends react to his suffering?




2. What are some of the ways we react to our own suffering?




3. What are some of the ways we react to the sufferings of others?





4. What have we found helpful from others when we suffer?




















What is a lament?
(http://www.americancatholic.org/Messenger/Mar2002/Feature2.asp#top)


Lamentation, a prayer for help coming out of pain, is very common in the Bible. Over one third (50 or so) of the psalms are laments. Lament frequently occurs in the Book of Job: "Why did I not perish at birth, come forth from the womb and expire?" (Job 3:11). The prophets likewise cry out to God, such as Jeremiah does: "Why is my pain continuous, my wound incurable...?" (15:18) and Habakkuk: "...my legs tremble beneath me. I await the day of distress that will come upon the people who attack us" (3:16).
One whole book, Lamentations, expresses the confusion and suffering felt after the destruction of Jerusalem by the Babylonians.
We find something similar in the New Testament as well. People who are afflicted cry out to Jesus for help. Bartimaeus, the blind beggar, shouts out, "Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me!" (Mark 10:47).
Jesus himself laments to the Father in the Garden of Gethsemane, "Abba, Father, all things are possible to you. Take this cup away from me..." (Mark 14:36). In his agony on the cross, Jesus makes his own the words of Psalm 22, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me...?"
Despite its wide-ranging presence in the Bible, we Christians have by and large lost touch with this dimension of prayer. It is something we need to recover.
What Is Lamentation?
When we feel blessed in life, when we experience goodness and wholeness, we turn to God in praise and thanksgiving. But what happens when we experience just the opposite? What happens when we are overcome by the presence of chaos, brokenness, suffering and death, or by a sudden sense of our human vulnerability.
When we hurt physically, we cry out in pain; when we hurt religiously, we cry out in lament.
To begin with, the laments we find in Scripture are addressed directly to God: "Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord; Lord, hear my voice!" (Psalm 130:1) and "My soul, too, is utterly terrified; but you, O Lord, how long...?" (Psalm 6:4).
In more modern terms we might say, "I call to you, O Lord, and all I get is your answering machine!" We take our cries directly to the top. God, however, seems very far away, "O my God, I cry out by day, and you answer not; by night, and there is no relief for me" (Psalm 22:3).
We ask heartfelt questions: "How long, O Lord? Will you utterly forget me?" (Psalm 13:2), which implies: I am at the end of my rope, and I cannot hold on much longer; and, "Why, O Lord, do you stand aloof? Why hide in times of distress?" (Psalm 10:1), which implies: "I do not understand what is going on; this makes no sense. How long? Why?" These are not requests for information, but cries of pain.
The afflictions of the speaker(s) are described in broad, stereotyped ways with which all sufferers can identify: sickness—"...heal me, O Lord, for my body is in terror" (Psalm 6:3); loneliness and alienation—"My friends and my companions stand back because of my affliction..." (Psalm 38:12); danger and mistreatment by others—"O Lord,... save me from all my pursuers" (Psalm 7:2) and even aging—"Cast me not off in my old age..." (Psalm 71:9).
Finally, the ultimate affliction is physical death—"For my soul is surfeited with troubles and my life draws near to the nether world" (Psalm 88:4). All of these are manifestations of the realm of chaos and of brokenness invading and pulling our lives apart.



Accepting Lament as an Act of Faith
First, we feel, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" and we might think, "I should not feel this way! I am losing my faith!" Lament corrects a false, naïve and overly rationalistic view of faith.
In the Scriptures, faith is not simply an intellectual assent to some statement about God. It is the trusting of our entire selves to God. At times, we do experience God's absence; we do feel alone and confused, and we doubt.
Doubt is not opposed to faith; despair is. We see this in the case of the father who brought his son to Jesus for healing. When Jesus encouraged the father to have faith, he replied, "I do believe, help my unbelief!" (Mark 9:24).
Even St. Paul tells us he was "perplexed, but not driven to despair" (2 Corinthians 4:8). In despair we give up on our relationship with God. Doubt, on the other hand, is a sign that our faith is alive and kicking; it is part of the rhythm of faith itself.
Lament is not a failure of faith, but an act of faith. We cry out directly to God because deep down we know that our relationship with God counts; it counts to us and it counts to God.
Even if we do not experience the closeness, we believe that God does care. Even if God seems not to hear, we believe that God is always within shouting distance. In the Scriptures, God does not say, "Do not fear, I will take away all the pain and struggle." Rather, we hear, "You have no need to fear, since I am with you" (e.g., to Isaac, frightened of the Philistine king—Genesis 26:24; to the anxious Moses being sent to confront Pharaoh—Exodus 3:11-12; to the disciples when they see Jesus walking on the sea—Matthew 14:27) and together we will make it.
We will survive, yes, even death itself. In the aftermath of the terrorist attacks, our security can be shaken, and our faith as well. Perhaps it is not lamenting, but the failure to lament that expresses a lack of faith.
Secondly, in lamenting we cry to God, "Why, O Lord?" Our suffering is so big; it does not make any sense; it lacks meaning. The desire to find meaning is a strong one.
After the attacks on the World Trade Center, a photo made the rounds on the Internet showing what seemed to be a face (or a skull) visible in the smoke pouring out of the towers. Could this be a sign that this was the work of the devil? Others appealed to the predictions of Nostradamus and some of the superficial religious explanations of prominent media preachers to make sense of what had happened.
In our search for meaning, we can be tempted to look for cheap and easy answers. Lament teaches us that there are indeed things we do not understand; in fact, we cannot understand. God does not say, "Do not fear; you will understand everything and have all the answers." Our human mind can take us only so far. At times we can do no more than speak our confusion to God, and lament tells us that we should do no less.
Thirdly, we feel against people who hurt us, personally or as a nation, "Happy the man who shall seize and smash your little ones against the rock" (Psalm 137:9), and we think, "I should not feel this way; it is against charity."
Lament counters a false, naïve and overly romantic view of charity. Charity does not mean that everything is lovely, that we never get upset, that we sit around holding hands and saying how wonderful everything is. This is unreal.
Negativity, injustice, hatred, brokenness are part of our lives and part of our world. In the face of this, we can have an instinctive feeling for retaliation in kind, for returning hatred with hatred. I do feel pain, hurt and anger, but these are not a good basis on which to act. The fact that I feel a certain way does not give me permission to go out and dump my negativity wherever and on whomever I want. Lament suggests that it is all right to express our uncensored feelings before God.
Acknowledging Our Pain
In this light, the "cursing psalms" make sense. They have often been a particular stumbling block. We need to recognize, first, that they are clearly spoken out of great pain and distress. The feelings are really in the psalms, and at times they are really in us.
But, second, the psalmist does not say, "I am going to go out and smash his little ones against the rock!" We do not, as it were, take things into our own hands. We say rather, "God, this is the way I feel; I leave it to you." And God has never been known to rush out and do everything we ask when we are angry. We let God deal with it, and in the process, we get the feelings out of us; we can begin to respond more reflectively, more constructively.
It is true that Jesus' example teaches us to pray, "Father, forgive them, they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34)—an attitude found also in some parts of the Old Testament, such as Exodus 23:4-5 and Job 31:29-30. This is indeed the direction in which we hope to move, the direction we want our actions to reflect. But our feelings may not always be there—at least at first.
Again, the feelings are real and will not go away, and if we do not recognize them and deal with them constructively, they will go underground and pop up later in destructive ways. Lament is a constructive way to deal with them.
It is often noted that almost all of the lament psalms (Psalm 88 is an exception) end on a sudden turn to praise (e.g., 6:9-11; 22:23-32). Scholars have offered various explanations for this, but from the viewpoint of prayer, the meaning seems clear. It is only after we lament, after we face and express the pain and negativity and get it all out, that healing can begin. In more theological terms, we can say that it is only by facing and going through the death that we can come to new life, to resurrection.
The structure of lament tells us that it is possible to praise too soon. The psalmist takes the time to let all the pain and anger out before the praise can set in. Perhaps it is not lamenting, but the failure to lament that expresses a lack of charity.
Recovering the Power of Lamentations
It is true that we have lost a healthy sense of lament in our personal prayer life. We have lost it as well in our communal, liturgical life. Almost the only remaining context in which lament is formally acknowledged is the funeral liturgy, but here too it is possible to give lament short shrift.
Some years back, after the changes in the rite of funerals, a family I knew lost a child in a boating accident. A lot of pressure was brought to bear to "celebrate the Mass of the Resurrection, to rejoice in his birth to new life."
About a year later, their suppressed grief almost tore the family apart. Again, we must not deny honest pain, nor jump too quickly from loss to acceptance and skip over the lamenting process. Christian faith does proclaim a message of hope, but death and grief are still real.
Perhaps other situations exist in which some form of communal liturgical or paraliturgical lament would be appropriate: after a painful experience of divorce; in a religious community after dear members choose to leave; when missionaries depart for home after years of service in a foreign country; for victims of clergy abuse on the path of healing; in a neighborhood taken over by drug dealers; in a community hard hit by HIV and AIDS; in a community devastated by natural disaster (fire, flood, earthquake, tornado, hurricane); for people after the experience of rape. Or when terrorists attack a country and many lives are lost.
Perhaps we are discovering that, as a nation, we have been more traumatized than we initially thought; there may still be lamentation work to do.
How helpful it would be if we had some structures and models to allow us to express and acknowledge our grief, our pain, our confusion and our anger; to offer each other strength and support in difficult times; to help us, individually and communally, move forward with the task and challenge of life and to help us discern what is a good and proper response to any situation.
We have such structures and models available to us in the prayer of our Scriptures. The loss of lament has been costly; we have much to gain by recovering it.



Cry to God
Awake! Why are you asleep, O Lord?
 Arise! Cast us not off forever! 
Why do you hide your face,
 forgetting our woe and our oppression? 
For our souls are bowed down to the dust,
 our bodies are pressed to the earth. (Psalm 44:24-26)

How long, O Lord? Will you utterly forget me?
 How long will you hide your face from me? 
How long shall I harbor sorrow in my soul,
 grief in my heart day after day?
How long will my enemy triumph over me? (Psalm 13:2-3) 




Prayer in Anger
Pour out your wrath upon the nations
 that acknowledge you not,
upon the kingdoms that call not upon your name.
Why should the nations say, 
 "Where is their God?" 
Let it be known among the nations in our sight 
 that you avenge the shedding of your servants' blood. 
And repay our neighbors sevenfold into their bosoms 
 the disgrace they have inflicted on you, O Lord.
(Psalm 79:6,10,12)
Rise up, judge of the earth; render their deserts to the proud. How long, O Lord, shall the wicked,
 how long shall the wicked glory, 
Mouthing insolent speeches, boasting, all the evildoers? 
(Psalm 94:2-4)




Personal Affliction
Look toward me, and have pity on me,
 for I am alone and afflicted. 
Relieve the troubles of my heart, 
 and bring me out of my distress. 
Put an end to my affliction and my suffering, 
 and take away all my sins. 
Behold, my enemies are many, 
 and they hate me violently. 
Preserve my life, and rescue me; 
 let me not be put to shame, for I take refuge in you. 
(Psalm 25:16-20)

Trust in God
Show us, O Lord, your kindness,
 and grant us your salvation.
I will hear what God proclaims;
 the Lord—for he proclaims peace.
To his people, and to his faithful ones, 
 and to those who put in him their hope.
Near indeed is his salvation to those who fear him, 
 glory dwelling in our land. 
(Psalm 85:8-10)
Many say, "Oh, that we might see better times!" 
 O Lord, let the light of your countenance shine upon us! 
You put gladness into my heart, 
 more than when grain and wine abound. 
As soon as I lie down, I fall peacefully asleep,
 for you alone, O Lord, 
 bring security to my dwelling. 
(Psalm 4:7-9)